I always thought I had a pretty good sex life with my previous partners. I've heard everywhere that not every woman can orgasm from just sex, or at all, and so I figured I was doing pretty good by helping myself out and being able to orgasm that way.
However.. with my new boyfriend... WOW!!!!! I have NEVER had those kind of sensations before! I'm pretty sure he hits my G-spot, its so intense, a couple times I started loosing feeling in my hands and one time my feet too, it felt like it was so close to an earth-shattering full body orgasm, but I just couldn't make it over the edge.
It's been a couple weeks now since we started sleeping together, he's getting a little frusterated that I can't get off, not even through oral (I've been masterbating since a young age, she's super picky lol). I'm telling him to be patient, that hopefully my body will get used to these new sensations and I can just let go!
Advice on achieving full body orgasms? How did you learn how to do it and how long did it take? What does it feel like? I want to learn!!G-spot orgasms? I didn't think it was possible for me but now it seems likely... advice?
I've been having sex and masturbating for well over a decade and I'm still surprised to learn new things about myself and reaching new levels of pleasure I never thought possible. That's the way sex is, it just gets better with the more you know and the more experience you have.
Don't worry too much about this matter, you'll have an orgasm soon enough. You just need to relax and not think about it too much. The more comfortable you are with your body and your partner will make it easier. Don't feel bad about this, it's a very common situation, and just something that will take time to get over.
Best of luck!G-spot orgasms? I didn't think it was possible for me but now it seems likely... advice?
Tell him not to feel frusterated. It takes time, especially since you've been having orgasms on your own through masturbating longer than you've been having sex. Just like everything else, it'll take time. It should be worth it in the end.
You have to watch this video it tell you all about the G-Spot!!
http://www.gspot-media.com/GVideo/
well im a guy but im ';experienced';, ive achieved the full body orgasm with a girl before and she says she went completely numb and she got crazy after that (not like dementia). when he is going for it you just have to help him and when hes pushing you should push too. try it and see if it works.
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
Are there standards to having orgasms??????? HELP!!!! I NEED SEX ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!?
Does it count if U reach an orgasm while you play wit yourself while ya man penetrates U..or does it only count when U reach an orgasm by penetration alone?????
I always *** playin wit myself while my man does me..%26amp; i love it..i *** 2,3,4x's in a row...but I was tellin my friend %26amp; she says that doesnt count as an official orgasm..it only counts if he makes U *** thru penetration alone....but he is making me ***, I am just assistin it with my fingers.. :-) ..he makes me feel great!! I think shes just jealous cuz her man has a small winkadink...
WHAT DO YOUS THINK??? SERIOUS ANSWERS PLEEEEAZE!!!!!!!!Are there standards to having orgasms??????? HELP!!!! I NEED SEX ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!?
It is hard to be serious WHEN YOU TALK LIKE THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Anyways there is nothing official that defines an orgasm. There are external (clit stimulation) and internal orgasms (in my opinion). Not every woman has internal orgasms, why are you worrying about what your friend thinks anyways. It counts if you want it to count.Are there standards to having orgasms??????? HELP!!!! I NEED SEX ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!?
O.o An orgasm is an orgasm no matter how you reach it. What nonsense is this about 'official' or not. It's like saying you haven't really reached a destination because you took the bus adn not the train.
It counts. Some woman can not orgasm just by sex and have to have a little extra so your friend doesn't know what she is talking about. You do whatever you like.
no standards everyones different
answer mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
That totally counts. Most guys guys play with that during sex anyway. Just grab his hand and put it there and give me the hint.
It doesn't matter how you get there as long as you get there. They all count! 70% of women can not reach orgasm thru intercourse alone so if you can then that's awesome but you are in the minority.
hon everyone is different and some can only get off certain ways
if you can get off 2,3,4 times in a row tell your friend to get lost
That TOTALLY COUNTS! Your probably right about her mans small winkadink!
Of course it counts! an orgasm is an orgasm no matter who or what makes it happen...
An orgasm is always an official orgasm =]
I agree with you....an orgasm is an orgasm. With help or without. Just be glad you can have them, some girls dont...
you have more nerve endings on the outside that's why your ';man:'; should be good enough to do that while doing you,, he needs to learn,,,
Wow, it's a good thing you put out.
Because you don't exactly seem great for conversation.
There's no rules. It's just the same as me having to jack myself to get hard. As long as your both happy go with it
2nd answer the best
slut shitt get a lifee
I highly doubt that there are any standards for orgasms.
what do you mean does it count?
if you ***, you ***. the end.
i say an orgasm is and orgasm :D if he needs help then give it to him....
dont touch yourself thats gross
let your man do everything
tru-dAT... DEY don count... you lose points in DA ORGAZMO GAME
badlck
slut sh/t right there.
haha
as long as u get urs is all that counts lol
Here's a bit of a serious answer.
A woman can have an orgasm multiple ways. 1 way is stimulating the clit (which is what you are doing) another way is through penetration alone.
Now if you stimulate yourself by messing with your clit, the excitment that it builds might help the orgasm along with the penetration.
how do you decide which orgasm your having? Try playing with yourself after you orgasm, Try to keep him going at it for awhile longer, and if the ';feeling'; of orgasm is still there when you move your fingers around, then He caused you to orgasm through penetration. IF your clit is way to sensitive to even be touched after your first orgasm then You might have caused your own orgasm (which isn't a bad thing because you get excited from him penetrating you. Each spot compliments the others. )
I hope this helps you understand yourself better.
**** and another way to find out if you are causing yourself to orgasm is to make yourself orgasm by yourself, alone, just by rubbing the clit. That will give you a comparison. If the feeling is the same then you know you cause it more so through your fingers then him with his.... ****
Good luck.
lol yea i agree it think ur friend is jelous
to me coming is coming therees no standered or anything
well think of it like this if he can make u come with out u playing wit it is the orgasim any better then u playing wit it n getting penatrated at the same time ??
I always *** playin wit myself while my man does me..%26amp; i love it..i *** 2,3,4x's in a row...but I was tellin my friend %26amp; she says that doesnt count as an official orgasm..it only counts if he makes U *** thru penetration alone....but he is making me ***, I am just assistin it with my fingers.. :-) ..he makes me feel great!! I think shes just jealous cuz her man has a small winkadink...
WHAT DO YOUS THINK??? SERIOUS ANSWERS PLEEEEAZE!!!!!!!!Are there standards to having orgasms??????? HELP!!!! I NEED SEX ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!?
It is hard to be serious WHEN YOU TALK LIKE THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Anyways there is nothing official that defines an orgasm. There are external (clit stimulation) and internal orgasms (in my opinion). Not every woman has internal orgasms, why are you worrying about what your friend thinks anyways. It counts if you want it to count.Are there standards to having orgasms??????? HELP!!!! I NEED SEX ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!?
O.o An orgasm is an orgasm no matter how you reach it. What nonsense is this about 'official' or not. It's like saying you haven't really reached a destination because you took the bus adn not the train.
It counts. Some woman can not orgasm just by sex and have to have a little extra so your friend doesn't know what she is talking about. You do whatever you like.
no standards everyones different
answer mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
That totally counts. Most guys guys play with that during sex anyway. Just grab his hand and put it there and give me the hint.
It doesn't matter how you get there as long as you get there. They all count! 70% of women can not reach orgasm thru intercourse alone so if you can then that's awesome but you are in the minority.
hon everyone is different and some can only get off certain ways
if you can get off 2,3,4 times in a row tell your friend to get lost
That TOTALLY COUNTS! Your probably right about her mans small winkadink!
Of course it counts! an orgasm is an orgasm no matter who or what makes it happen...
An orgasm is always an official orgasm =]
I agree with you....an orgasm is an orgasm. With help or without. Just be glad you can have them, some girls dont...
you have more nerve endings on the outside that's why your ';man:'; should be good enough to do that while doing you,, he needs to learn,,,
Wow, it's a good thing you put out.
Because you don't exactly seem great for conversation.
There's no rules. It's just the same as me having to jack myself to get hard. As long as your both happy go with it
2nd answer the best
slut shitt get a lifee
I highly doubt that there are any standards for orgasms.
what do you mean does it count?
if you ***, you ***. the end.
i say an orgasm is and orgasm :D if he needs help then give it to him....
dont touch yourself thats gross
let your man do everything
tru-dAT... DEY don count... you lose points in DA ORGAZMO GAME
badlck
slut sh/t right there.
haha
as long as u get urs is all that counts lol
Here's a bit of a serious answer.
A woman can have an orgasm multiple ways. 1 way is stimulating the clit (which is what you are doing) another way is through penetration alone.
Now if you stimulate yourself by messing with your clit, the excitment that it builds might help the orgasm along with the penetration.
how do you decide which orgasm your having? Try playing with yourself after you orgasm, Try to keep him going at it for awhile longer, and if the ';feeling'; of orgasm is still there when you move your fingers around, then He caused you to orgasm through penetration. IF your clit is way to sensitive to even be touched after your first orgasm then You might have caused your own orgasm (which isn't a bad thing because you get excited from him penetrating you. Each spot compliments the others. )
I hope this helps you understand yourself better.
**** and another way to find out if you are causing yourself to orgasm is to make yourself orgasm by yourself, alone, just by rubbing the clit. That will give you a comparison. If the feeling is the same then you know you cause it more so through your fingers then him with his.... ****
Good luck.
lol yea i agree it think ur friend is jelous
to me coming is coming therees no standered or anything
well think of it like this if he can make u come with out u playing wit it is the orgasim any better then u playing wit it n getting penatrated at the same time ??
I need advice or help on orgasms?
so, i know everyone says you'll know when you have one but honestly i dont know. there are times where it seems like im getting closer and closer to it and sometimes i feel like i had one because it starts to not feel as good, but there is never really like, i dont know how to say what im trying to say. i just dont know if i am orgasming i feel like it should be bigger. or im not accomplishing it. i mean my boyfriend is really good at what he does (although keep in mind im still a virgin but we have done basically everything but sex) i would really just like to orgasm to the point that i actually know it is one. im sorry im sure this is comfusing and dosnt make sense but can anyone help me with what im trying to say or problems im having?I need advice or help on orgasms?
You definitely have not had an orgasm yet. You WILL know when you have one.
My girlfriend doesn't make much noise during sex, save for the occasional moan... but when she first orgasmed, oh my god she went ballistic. It was incredible.
And problems... mmm it's different for a lot of people. Just try hitting different spots and once you find the one you like, keep at it. I'm pretty sure that'd work.
I managed to get her to orgasm during oralI need advice or help on orgasms?
So you really will know, its like nothing I can describe. Webster describes it as: an explosive discharge of neuromuscular tensions at the height of sexual arousal that is usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen in the male and by vaginal contractions in the female. basically, its like really good feeling shocks starting in your genital area and working their way outwards in your body. The best way to get an orgasm without actually having sex I think is to use a vibrator in high right against your clit.
You definitely have not had an orgasm yet. You WILL know when you have one.
My girlfriend doesn't make much noise during sex, save for the occasional moan... but when she first orgasmed, oh my god she went ballistic. It was incredible.
And problems... mmm it's different for a lot of people. Just try hitting different spots and once you find the one you like, keep at it. I'm pretty sure that'd work.
I managed to get her to orgasm during oralI need advice or help on orgasms?
So you really will know, its like nothing I can describe. Webster describes it as: an explosive discharge of neuromuscular tensions at the height of sexual arousal that is usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen in the male and by vaginal contractions in the female. basically, its like really good feeling shocks starting in your genital area and working their way outwards in your body. The best way to get an orgasm without actually having sex I think is to use a vibrator in high right against your clit.
Help! I'm getting weaker orgasms than I used to, any advice?
I'm a 22 year old male, healthy, active and eat healthy about 90% of the time (sometimes I drink socially on occasions on the weekends but this is not common). Anyway I've noticed that for the past few months my orgasms have been getting less intense and while I still shoot a lot of semen, the orgasm feeling is almost non-existent. I know it's not ED because I still get firm, hard erections but perhaps it could be depression? I've been depressed since I was 13 but it never seemed to have an effect so I'm completely clueless. Should I go see a doctor?Help! I'm getting weaker orgasms than I used to, any advice?
If you are on anti-depressants, that could be the cause...Help! I'm getting weaker orgasms than I used to, any advice?
are you on and meds at the moment or have you been on meds the past few months.
Sometimes meds can have this effect on men.
I only know this because it happened to my husband.
As soon as he switched meds he was back to normal.
learn some kama sutra techniques
learn some JELGING techniques
learn some KEGEL exercises.
Learn some YOGA techniques.
wear a c0ckstrap
If you are on anti-depressants, that could be the cause...Help! I'm getting weaker orgasms than I used to, any advice?
are you on and meds at the moment or have you been on meds the past few months.
Sometimes meds can have this effect on men.
I only know this because it happened to my husband.
As soon as he switched meds he was back to normal.
learn some kama sutra techniques
learn some JELGING techniques
learn some KEGEL exercises.
Learn some YOGA techniques.
wear a c0ckstrap
Advice from girls about orgasms?
when i am lying on bed with girlfriend watching a film we sometimes do stuff, like i will rub her clit and stuff, after about 15 mins she goes tense in her legs and they start to close but when i stop rubbing she relaxes them again, is this her having an orgasm if not then what?Advice from girls about orgasms?
Lucky girl. and yes thats an orgasm. There are different levels of having one. You can have a slight orgasm.Advice from girls about orgasms?
id recommend trying to bite her clit until it bleeds, then try putting your dick into her ***. if it wont fit, dont worry, where do you think the term ';im gonna rip you a new asshole'; came from? right when shes to pass out punch her square in the face with all of your might. she'll thank you for it later.
Sounds like its painful so she relaxes when you stop. You need to communicate
yes sir
Lucky girl. and yes thats an orgasm. There are different levels of having one. You can have a slight orgasm.Advice from girls about orgasms?
id recommend trying to bite her clit until it bleeds, then try putting your dick into her ***. if it wont fit, dont worry, where do you think the term ';im gonna rip you a new asshole'; came from? right when shes to pass out punch her square in the face with all of your might. she'll thank you for it later.
Sounds like its painful so she relaxes when you stop. You need to communicate
yes sir
Female orgasms, please give advice?
okay i thought i new everything i could about the female body, reproductive areas and what not, but here is a question i need help with, dont laugh, when a female has a orgasm where does it stem from, is it the uterus, or somewhere else, what makes it feel good, im asking because in a month im having a hysterectomy and im wondering when the uterus is gone will i still be able to achieve an orgasm,i know when i was pregnant, i was told the fetus likes the rocking feeling when we have orgasms so if its not there how do you feel an orgasm, that alone may make me reconsider my options, thanks in advance for any answers, or advice i may get.Female orgasms, please give advice?
For a live changing decision like this I don't personally think this is the place to get your answer. Go to your doctor and ask him/her, they will know better then the vast majority of answer's you get here. Even if you feel uncomfortable talking about it, better knowing what you are about to do and what can happen then someone telling you something that is not true? Just something to think about. : )Female orgasms, please give advice?
First off, a fetus is a uterus with a child inside it. Orgasms can instigate a birth if the child is late. To my knowledge, the sensation comes from the contracting of the vaginal muscles and the clit oris. I don't think it will effect your sensations, but of course, it's always best to check with a professional. The one thing I do know about hystoectomies is that a full one is not the best option because the organ is about the size of a pear and can cause incontinence issues later in life because of a bladder shift. If you have an issue with hemmoraging- as this may be the reason for the procedure in the first place- a chemical option is the birth control pill. The birth control pill actually regulates hormones and stops hemmoraging from happening during menses. If a surgical procedure must be performed it's better to have the lining of the uterus- I know this is going to sound gross as I do not know the proper name for it- burned, so that menses can stop. As foresaid a hystorectomy is a procedure that is not like getting your tonsils taken out. I hope if you have to get it completely taken out that you are able to retain your ovaries, because without the ovaries, a woman has to undergo estrogen therapy. But I very much doubt you have to get a full hystorectomy seeing as how you can explore some options. But I still suggest you go talk to a doctor before making such a decision.
For a live changing decision like this I don't personally think this is the place to get your answer. Go to your doctor and ask him/her, they will know better then the vast majority of answer's you get here. Even if you feel uncomfortable talking about it, better knowing what you are about to do and what can happen then someone telling you something that is not true? Just something to think about. : )Female orgasms, please give advice?
First off, a fetus is a uterus with a child inside it. Orgasms can instigate a birth if the child is late. To my knowledge, the sensation comes from the contracting of the vaginal muscles and the clit oris. I don't think it will effect your sensations, but of course, it's always best to check with a professional. The one thing I do know about hystoectomies is that a full one is not the best option because the organ is about the size of a pear and can cause incontinence issues later in life because of a bladder shift. If you have an issue with hemmoraging- as this may be the reason for the procedure in the first place- a chemical option is the birth control pill. The birth control pill actually regulates hormones and stops hemmoraging from happening during menses. If a surgical procedure must be performed it's better to have the lining of the uterus- I know this is going to sound gross as I do not know the proper name for it- burned, so that menses can stop. As foresaid a hystorectomy is a procedure that is not like getting your tonsils taken out. I hope if you have to get it completely taken out that you are able to retain your ovaries, because without the ovaries, a woman has to undergo estrogen therapy. But I very much doubt you have to get a full hystorectomy seeing as how you can explore some options. But I still suggest you go talk to a doctor before making such a decision.
I need a girls advice about orgasms!!?
ive been having sex for 3 years and only had two orgasms...im 18..
but ive been masturbating since i turned 13 and ive had plenty like that..when i mastubate i always have them..but when i have actual sex i never do..
why is that?
I need a girls advice about orgasms!!?
You're so young :-( !! Anyway...it's normal. A lot of women have orgasms when they masturbate, multiple ones, but then have a hard time reaching one with a partner. Maybe change the position with the partner so that you are able to stimulate the same area that you do by yourself. On top, while he's sitting on a couch or something %26amp; you're face to face %26amp; chest to chest works well! It also depends on the partner. Sadly, sometimes you never get there with certain people. You can also use a toy on yourself with your partner there too.I need a girls advice about orgasms!!?
What good can an orgasm bring you? Maybe some women don't get orgasms because they don't want to get them have you thought of that? Sex is only important to worldly people, people who love themselves and people who are into feeling good in their bodies. If you want to be a true Christian then you will not feel guilty if you can't get an orgasm but you'll be glad if you don't have one or if you don't have to have sex. But that is up to you. I'll send you a site where you can study the Bible. Let men have the orgasms since they think it is so important for them to have them. Do you know that sex is only meant to create a child in God's plan? But nowadays people have made sex another sport one has to do to be hip or to fit in. I don't want to fit in and I don't care what they think if I am not like that. Think like that and if you can't then pray to God to be able to think like that.
I started having sex when I was 15 and I didn't ever have an orgasm until I was 18. And when you masturbate you are probably giving yourself a clitoris O which is different then the type of O a girl typically has during sex. Maybe the guy isn't hitting your spot. I don't have an O every time that I have sex. You might want to try a different position. I normally come when I'm on top, and I know doggy style really lets the guy hits a different spot.
When you masturbate you are having direct contact with your clit which is highly sensitive and that is why you have an orgasm. The same when someone performs oral sex on you. It is direct penetration on your clit and this will cause you to have one (if done right!) The times you've had sex your partner did not hit your ';g-spot'; and that is why you didn't have an orgasm. So, it will come with practice, patience %26amp; experience!
It depends on the position also you need to give yourself plenty of time to get worked-up 'horney'.Try getting on top and move up %26amp; down whilst his penis is inside,kind of like grinding,but before that make sure you have had plenty of time for oral %26amp; play,now if my advise has no effect than maybe see a sex therepist,good luck.Tammy
Practice with dry sex. You on top, wearing jeans or another kind of stiff pants, you can. The amount of pressure on your c/lit is crazy and you should come easily. Work from there, trying again without pants, then slowly moving back to intercourse. Show him how to move, how to work both the G spot and the c/lit simultaneously.
Damn girl what is the point of three years of sex and no orgasms.
It's not all that uncommon. A lot of women can get orgasms by masterbating, by getting oral sex from a guy or by a guy usinghis hands. Don't worry about it. Try to guide your boyfriend while having sex. Try different positions that will put more pressure in the place you need itto be.
WELL.... you know your body best and you know what will please you. That's why you orgasm every time you do it yourself. The other person doesn't know as well as you do. The best way to get them to give you one is to ';direct'; them or maybe have them watch you pelase yourself so they get an idea of what areas are ';YOUR'; areas.
Some people have lots of trouble achieving orgasms druing sex. Its nothing wrong with you it just has to do with the phisiology of your body. Changing partners will probably change little. Try stimulating yourself while having sex and see if that helps.
Try using your kegel muscles squeezing and releasing during sex, i find it helps to create that tension. And also try not to expect it, it will happen when you arent focusing on it during sex. Good luck =]
Probably because you have a partner that is either selfish and doesn't get you there first OR you have a bad partner that can't find your O button.Either way...
cuz you can do it better by your self
I don't have orgasms during sex either, only with oral stimulation. Just show him what you like.
choose ';wiser'; partners.
';baby you dont dig you man'; ';baby you dont dig your maaahhhnnn';
Maybe your lover is not working it right. That could be it.
Myabe the gy just isn't doin it for you and you know just what ya like
dont masturbate anymore get use to what you have.
its normale dont worry just help your girlfriend out
mayeb youre not straight
ur not enjoying it
u need to feel more comfortable with ur partners
but ive been masturbating since i turned 13 and ive had plenty like that..when i mastubate i always have them..but when i have actual sex i never do..
why is that?
I need a girls advice about orgasms!!?
You're so young :-( !! Anyway...it's normal. A lot of women have orgasms when they masturbate, multiple ones, but then have a hard time reaching one with a partner. Maybe change the position with the partner so that you are able to stimulate the same area that you do by yourself. On top, while he's sitting on a couch or something %26amp; you're face to face %26amp; chest to chest works well! It also depends on the partner. Sadly, sometimes you never get there with certain people. You can also use a toy on yourself with your partner there too.I need a girls advice about orgasms!!?
What good can an orgasm bring you? Maybe some women don't get orgasms because they don't want to get them have you thought of that? Sex is only important to worldly people, people who love themselves and people who are into feeling good in their bodies. If you want to be a true Christian then you will not feel guilty if you can't get an orgasm but you'll be glad if you don't have one or if you don't have to have sex. But that is up to you. I'll send you a site where you can study the Bible. Let men have the orgasms since they think it is so important for them to have them. Do you know that sex is only meant to create a child in God's plan? But nowadays people have made sex another sport one has to do to be hip or to fit in. I don't want to fit in and I don't care what they think if I am not like that. Think like that and if you can't then pray to God to be able to think like that.
I started having sex when I was 15 and I didn't ever have an orgasm until I was 18. And when you masturbate you are probably giving yourself a clitoris O which is different then the type of O a girl typically has during sex. Maybe the guy isn't hitting your spot. I don't have an O every time that I have sex. You might want to try a different position. I normally come when I'm on top, and I know doggy style really lets the guy hits a different spot.
When you masturbate you are having direct contact with your clit which is highly sensitive and that is why you have an orgasm. The same when someone performs oral sex on you. It is direct penetration on your clit and this will cause you to have one (if done right!) The times you've had sex your partner did not hit your ';g-spot'; and that is why you didn't have an orgasm. So, it will come with practice, patience %26amp; experience!
It depends on the position also you need to give yourself plenty of time to get worked-up 'horney'.Try getting on top and move up %26amp; down whilst his penis is inside,kind of like grinding,but before that make sure you have had plenty of time for oral %26amp; play,now if my advise has no effect than maybe see a sex therepist,good luck.Tammy
Practice with dry sex. You on top, wearing jeans or another kind of stiff pants, you can. The amount of pressure on your c/lit is crazy and you should come easily. Work from there, trying again without pants, then slowly moving back to intercourse. Show him how to move, how to work both the G spot and the c/lit simultaneously.
Damn girl what is the point of three years of sex and no orgasms.
It's not all that uncommon. A lot of women can get orgasms by masterbating, by getting oral sex from a guy or by a guy usinghis hands. Don't worry about it. Try to guide your boyfriend while having sex. Try different positions that will put more pressure in the place you need itto be.
WELL.... you know your body best and you know what will please you. That's why you orgasm every time you do it yourself. The other person doesn't know as well as you do. The best way to get them to give you one is to ';direct'; them or maybe have them watch you pelase yourself so they get an idea of what areas are ';YOUR'; areas.
Some people have lots of trouble achieving orgasms druing sex. Its nothing wrong with you it just has to do with the phisiology of your body. Changing partners will probably change little. Try stimulating yourself while having sex and see if that helps.
Try using your kegel muscles squeezing and releasing during sex, i find it helps to create that tension. And also try not to expect it, it will happen when you arent focusing on it during sex. Good luck =]
Probably because you have a partner that is either selfish and doesn't get you there first OR you have a bad partner that can't find your O button.Either way...
cuz you can do it better by your self
I don't have orgasms during sex either, only with oral stimulation. Just show him what you like.
choose ';wiser'; partners.
';baby you dont dig you man'; ';baby you dont dig your maaahhhnnn';
Maybe your lover is not working it right. That could be it.
Myabe the gy just isn't doin it for you and you know just what ya like
dont masturbate anymore get use to what you have.
its normale dont worry just help your girlfriend out
mayeb youre not straight
ur not enjoying it
u need to feel more comfortable with ur partners
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