Are there standards to having orgasms??????? HELP!!!! I NEED SEX ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!?

Does it count if U reach an orgasm while you play wit yourself while ya man penetrates U..or does it only count when U reach an orgasm by penetration alone?????





I always *** playin wit myself while my man does me..%26amp; i love it..i *** 2,3,4x's in a row...but I was tellin my friend %26amp; she says that doesnt count as an official orgasm..it only counts if he makes U *** thru penetration alone....but he is making me ***, I am just assistin it with my fingers.. :-) ..he makes me feel great!! I think shes just jealous cuz her man has a small winkadink...





WHAT DO YOUS THINK??? SERIOUS ANSWERS PLEEEEAZE!!!!!!!!Are there standards to having orgasms??????? HELP!!!! I NEED SEX ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!?
It is hard to be serious WHEN YOU TALK LIKE THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!





Anyways there is nothing official that defines an orgasm. There are external (clit stimulation) and internal orgasms (in my opinion). Not every woman has internal orgasms, why are you worrying about what your friend thinks anyways. It counts if you want it to count.Are there standards to having orgasms??????? HELP!!!! I NEED SEX ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!?
O.o An orgasm is an orgasm no matter how you reach it. What nonsense is this about 'official' or not. It's like saying you haven't really reached a destination because you took the bus adn not the train.
It counts. Some woman can not orgasm just by sex and have to have a little extra so your friend doesn't know what she is talking about. You do whatever you like.
no standards everyones different


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That totally counts. Most guys guys play with that during sex anyway. Just grab his hand and put it there and give me the hint.
It doesn't matter how you get there as long as you get there. They all count! 70% of women can not reach orgasm thru intercourse alone so if you can then that's awesome but you are in the minority.
hon everyone is different and some can only get off certain ways


if you can get off 2,3,4 times in a row tell your friend to get lost
That TOTALLY COUNTS! Your probably right about her mans small winkadink!
Of course it counts! an orgasm is an orgasm no matter who or what makes it happen...
An orgasm is always an official orgasm =]
I agree with you....an orgasm is an orgasm. With help or without. Just be glad you can have them, some girls dont...
you have more nerve endings on the outside that's why your ';man:'; should be good enough to do that while doing you,, he needs to learn,,,
Wow, it's a good thing you put out.





Because you don't exactly seem great for conversation.
There's no rules. It's just the same as me having to jack myself to get hard. As long as your both happy go with it
2nd answer the best





slut shitt get a lifee
I highly doubt that there are any standards for orgasms.
what do you mean does it count?


if you ***, you ***. the end.
i say an orgasm is and orgasm :D if he needs help then give it to him....
dont touch yourself thats gross


let your man do everything
tru-dAT... DEY don count... you lose points in DA ORGAZMO GAME





badlck
slut sh/t right there.


haha
as long as u get urs is all that counts lol
Here's a bit of a serious answer.





A woman can have an orgasm multiple ways. 1 way is stimulating the clit (which is what you are doing) another way is through penetration alone.





Now if you stimulate yourself by messing with your clit, the excitment that it builds might help the orgasm along with the penetration.





how do you decide which orgasm your having? Try playing with yourself after you orgasm, Try to keep him going at it for awhile longer, and if the ';feeling'; of orgasm is still there when you move your fingers around, then He caused you to orgasm through penetration. IF your clit is way to sensitive to even be touched after your first orgasm then You might have caused your own orgasm (which isn't a bad thing because you get excited from him penetrating you. Each spot compliments the others. )





I hope this helps you understand yourself better.





**** and another way to find out if you are causing yourself to orgasm is to make yourself orgasm by yourself, alone, just by rubbing the clit. That will give you a comparison. If the feeling is the same then you know you cause it more so through your fingers then him with his.... ****


Good luck.
lol yea i agree it think ur friend is jelous





to me coming is coming therees no standered or anything





well think of it like this if he can make u come with out u playing wit it is the orgasim any better then u playing wit it n getting penatrated at the same time ??