I need advice or help regarding reaching an orgasm..?

I am a lesbian and i am 19 years old (keep in mind any bashing will be deleted). I have had sexual experiences with both male (before i came out) and female. Obviously i enjoy it more with the female...thats besides the point. I have had numerous partners and some werent as good. But im dating a girl whom i find rather enjoyable in that sense. I cant seem to ever achieve an orgasm with anyone. I thought maybe it was because theyre werent good. but this is about my 10th partner, and it still hasn't happened. i don't know if its me, or if theres something wrong. Its frustrating.





Help!!I need advice or help regarding reaching an orgasm..?
Are you able to orgasm by yourself? If you are able to then it is not you, it is your partners. If you have never been able to orgasm just keep trying new things. Do not put that much pressure on yourself to have an orgasm. Sometimes you orgasm and sometimes you don't. It's not the end of the world one way or the other. Just keep practicing... practice makes perfect! :)





Edit: the G-Spot is up inside you about 1 1/2 inches on the belly side of your vagina. Unless your parter has a seriously long tongue (like Gene Simmons) they will not be able to ';eat that out.'; Also, ';squirting'; and an orgasm like you are talking about are not the same thing.I need advice or help regarding reaching an orgasm..?
Easy way is follow this.What my wife does is after fore play and and oral sex she take my penis in her hand starts rub against her clitories.she will be sleep upwords and man should nort move.she maintains her rythum and see the result

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Okay this is going to sound VERY disgusting but go to google and type in ';how to reach an orgasm'; they may have some videos to show you certain spots. Also try eating each other out and sucking on each others clitoris or eating out on the g-spot to make each other squirt. It seems to make people orgasm.
Being frustrated will make it much harder for you. If you stop thinking about an orgasm, and just appreciate the pleasure she gives you, then it will catch you by surprise one day.


Definitely masturbate more. It's good to know what pleasures you, and you will feel much less under pressure.
Maybe you are more visual so try watching adult films while your at it.


Find your erogenous area. (Ex. inner arm, clit, vulva, etc.) Then concentrate on it more. And make sure you are enjoying yourself.





Also, you may want to use a dildo or vibrator or some sort of sex toy. Try reaching you G-spot or your A-spot. Try using it in the anus too.

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