My boyfriend has only had one orgasm since we have been together. Need advice on how to discuss it.?

We have been together for 4 months and he has had only one orgasm. He has no problem getting or keeping an erection and he really seems in to me. I have tried discussing this with him and he says that as long as I have an orgasm, that is all that matters to him. It makes me feel like I cannot please him. I suspect he is taking an antidepressant which is affecting this (I'm a nurse) and I would like advice on how to broach the subject without prying too much.My boyfriend has only had one orgasm since we have been together. Need advice on how to discuss it.?
If you really like him, and are close enough to sleep together, then you'll be fine to just ask him outright! It does seem a bit daunting at first as you never know how a guy will react! Tell him that you're worried you're not satisfying him, and tell him how much you'd like to do that. This might make him realise that it could be upsetting you, and he should be more willing to talk. Although, men are strange creatures, so it may take a few goes!! Good luck, hope I've helped :-) My boyfriend has only had one orgasm since we have been together. Need advice on how to discuss it.?
probably it is not you and he has a problem of some sort. being a nurse i would think you would have suggested he see a doctor and explain to him that you are very very happy that is concern is for you to have a orgasm and you love the fact that he cares yet you feel the same way about him also having a orgasm. this is another form of good communication for a great relationship.
first of all, man don't have orgasm, man ejaculate.


have you tried, taking longer time, b4 intercourse?


meaning playing a little longer, and kiss him more, in areas where he truly likes? It's not normal what happens to him, it could be that he is taking some pills that are making him delay so much or not able to have an ejaculation, but also the mind plays the most important role, and that could be the problem.
1) I wouldn't worry about it. If he says he's satisfied, he's satisfied.





2) If you really, really want him to orgasm, you're going to have to do something different. That means some other form of stimulation.





3) The way you approach it is you just start using the different form of stimulation and see what happens. If he asks you about it afterwards, tell him you want to make it as good for him as it is for you. That should get the ball rolling.
This is a very sentative subject for guys. I think the best way to deal with this is just try doing different things with him. Ask him what he likes. It maybe he is so concentrated on pleasing you that he can't concentrate on himself. Have a night were it is just all about him and see if he becomes more comfortable with you and is able to orgasm more. Hope this helps
I THINK THE ANTIDEPRESANT IS NOT THE ISSUE, BECAUSE TRUST ME GUYS HAVE NO PROBLEM CU**** EVEN IF ON MEDICINE LOL


I THINK THERE IS A DEEPER ISSUE HERE, MABYE HE'S NOT ABLE TO RELAX DURING SEX, OR MABYE HE HAS TO FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE AROUND YOU. IT CAN EVEN BE POSSIBLE THAT HE IS JA***** OFF BEFORE YOU TWO DO IT.


DONT PRESURE HIM, IF YOU CAN GET HIM TO RELAX HE''LL GET THERE.


GOOD LUCK
mention that him haveing an orgams is part of him pleasing you.. and ask if there is anythig you can do to help the process.. like screaming rape when u orgasm.. u get the idea.. just gota raelly find which buttons to push
he is pulling your leg - men have orgams every time they ejaculate .. you the one who needs them.
Try pleasing him for a change. Have a night dedicated only to him. But first, figure out what he likes to do in bed, in terms of foreplay, stuff like that. If you want to keep it discreet, try doing intimate emails or IMs during work or while one of you is gone on a trip.





A little teasing goes a long way, too. Believe it or not, some men like to be teased just as much as women. It also makes an orgasm inevitable. Try pole dancing, role playing, the whole nine, anything that involves him begging you to let him touch you. Go all out.