I have been with my bf for 15 yrs, He's only made me orgasm once! C'mon guys some advice PLEEEEASE ?

OK well basically when my bf reaches his climax, he seems to think thats it!! it is so frustrating, I either roll over or fake it..then when he has gone to sleep I pull the good ole vibrator out, lucky I have one if you ask me. I have explained everything to my partner, he listens and says he will try better but well it just aint happening, our sex usually lasts oh i dunno maybe 5 mins max and its driving me nuts, the vibrator gives me the satisfaction but i would really love my partner to be able to do this for me..I have been so desperate lately that every chance I get its porn or the toys whichever comes first.,.any advice would be great..oh and incase your wondering from his point of view im not ugly or anything and have a pretty good body im toned and fit..so whats wrong with me????I have been with my bf for 15 yrs, He's only made me orgasm once! C'mon guys some advice PLEEEEASE ?
he just aint hittin it right i would reccomened u talk to him about getting some PILLS longer lasting like extenze or someting because my wife probaly wouldnt be with me if i wasnt good in bed lol...sex is a big deal in a relationship and you need to take care of that problem asap...or it will cause lots more strain on your realationship...........................鈥?him enzyte or extenze or somtingI have been with my bf for 15 yrs, He's only made me orgasm once! C'mon guys some advice PLEEEEASE ?
Okay, maybe this might be a goofy answer but have you considered having him finish you with the vibrator? If you guys are getting married you should be able to communicate on something as serious as that. I know sex isn't all there is to marriage but it is an important part. Ask him if he'd try it for you, or at least do other things to you while you finish yourself off. Good luck.
If you're marrying, you should love each other enough to want to make them happy, including fulfilling their sexual needs. So he listens and says he'll do more, but doesn't? Hmm. Communicate when having sex, tell him to do things that you like, sit on top so you're in control. If he still doesn't do anything, then wow! Selfish in bed or what.. Give him a huge piece of your mind ;)
WOW!............ thats crazy, not to brag but i can usually go for hours, sometime make my partner *** twice, its a mind over matter thing honestly, it aint gonna get better, cuz its his body,
You say he said he'll try, but them you let him not bother. Simple new rule: he doesn't get his until after you've got yours. If nothing else, have him use the toys on you first.
What's wrong with you?


You put up with it for 15 years, that's what.


Why are you whinging about it now?
maybe tell him to foreplay with you more??? to get it really high, then start having wild crazy sex to make u ***?
Well, my first thought is why have you had a bf for 15yrs? Not that marriage is the end all be all, but depending on why he is a bf and not a husband, it might explain a certain lack of concern for your needs.





Sex is certainly an individual thing and different for everyone, but if your needs are not being met, then somethings got to ';rip or slip';.





First thing is, it needs to matter to him that you are not being satisfied. If it doesn't, nothing will make it better. If he does care and just isn't able to control his own pleasure long enough to make you happy, perhaps you need to change the order in which things are done.





A little oral before and during can heat up the pan so that you are able to get there faster. It also slows him down so that he can last longer and not just go full steam ahead.





Good luck. Your situation can be VERY frustration and I hope he cares enough to really work on it. Toys are fun, but nothing compares the real thing.