Orgasm advice please?

I have never had an actual orgasm during sex, the only times I have, I've been rubbing %26amp; grinding against my partner while we are clothed. Even being gone down on hasn't made it happen! Any tips for making it happen while doing the actual act?Orgasm advice please?
Sex is overrated, so are orgasms, to be honest.





All women are different. You are more normal that you can even imagine. Lots of women have this problem.





Lots of foreplay. Lots of relaxation. Especially mentally. Lots of you time %26amp; experience ~ discover yourself %26amp; see who, what, when, where %26amp; how feels GOOD to YOU! Regardless of what some say, sex can still feel good w/ out orgasm. Sometimes you will be letdown, sometimes you will be melting in your own orgasm %26amp; sometimes you will have multiples where you just can't stop %26amp; you';ll be like why did I even question this?! ;) ha


It's ok.





Men are more visually stimulated while women are more emotionally stimulated. YOu need to let go of emotional baggage and/or nervousness that can hold you back. ANd the more you focus on trying to achive one, the harder it will be. A good vibrator on your clit w/ or w/out sex is GREAT too. *ahem* ;DOrgasm advice please?
I'm guessing that you're a lesbian. I'm a guy, but I can help you with your problem...
try not to think about it so much. but sometimes it takes a while to get used to . and some women can only orgasm from certain things like maybe just clitoral stimulation or penetration. but try with a vibrator and try different positions. has your guy hit your g spot?
Probably because most woman have orgasm through the clitoris
Go on top! Be in control of what is happening to stimulate you, light on, light off, dirty talk, fantasy. Try and find what gets you going. Men love a woman that knows what she wants and you will feel so great for getting what you want.
The best thing for you to do, is let your boyfriend experiment with your ';G-spot';. Also, there are certain tongue techniques that will almost ensure an orgasm. Get your boyfriend to use his tongue to write the alphabet on the clitorus during oral sex.





As for orgasming during sex, not all women can, much to their dismay. Keep trying new things. Who knows what you will come across.