Sunday, December 20, 2009

I have never felt orgasm.How i can get it?What i can advice my partner to do?Different position?prolong time?

I have been married for 2 years.I have never felt orgasm.How i can make it?Any perticular position?Prolong sex?Hard movements?Oral sex?What can i advice my partner to do?I have never felt orgasm.How i can get it?What i can advice my partner to do?Different position?prolong time?
Do it for yourself first. Get yourself alone, naked.......start touching your nipples, roll them between your fingers, gently pinch them, tug them. When you start feeling good, like you want more.....reach down, between your legs.....let your finger tips trace around your clit.....rub it gently, circle around it with your fingers......as you get more and more worked up, get a little more aggressive. Keep at it, think of something erotic while doing it (the thought of me generally gets the job done - ha!). Don't stop until you have that feeling of ecstasy, where you lose control.....are lost in the bliss of the moment. That's an orgasm. You'll know it when you feel it. Don't be inhibited.....you have to let yourself go, feel free to explore your own body and enjoy the feelings. If you don't know yourself what gets you off, it's going to be pretty hard to tell your husband what to do. Once you are able to get yourself off, know what you like and what does it for you.....you will be able to guide him to doing it for you. And I recommend you have him perform oral on you, to do the trick.....I've never known a woman to not get off from that. Just remember....the clitoris is where it is at......that's the spot to work on. Yes, have him use his tongue on it.....I promise, you'll love it.I have never felt orgasm.How i can get it?What i can advice my partner to do?Different position?prolong time?
Do not go straight to intercourse, Normally go for foreplay for about one or two hrs. Make sure both have sufficient lubrication. Prolong as far as possible. this should work or consult a gyny.
prolong time it should work
The first question is; does your hubby pay attention to you and your desires in general. Is he affectionate only when he wants sex? Orgasms are part mental and part physical. IF he pays attention to you and your range of needs in daily life, then you likely just need to relax and explore.


Have you ever mastubated to orgasm? If not, you may have some internal conflicts about sex, guilt or intimacy. Does any kind of touch give you pleasure? (yours or his) If so start with that.


If he can't focus on your simple pleasures for more than a few moments, he has some homework to do.


If you don't know what gives you pleasure you have some homework to do.
do lot of foreplay

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