I need a girls advice about orgasms!!?

ive been having sex for 3 years and only had two orgasms...im 18..


but ive been masturbating since i turned 13 and ive had plenty like that..when i mastubate i always have them..but when i have actual sex i never do..


why is that?


I need a girls advice about orgasms!!?
You're so young :-( !! Anyway...it's normal. A lot of women have orgasms when they masturbate, multiple ones, but then have a hard time reaching one with a partner. Maybe change the position with the partner so that you are able to stimulate the same area that you do by yourself. On top, while he's sitting on a couch or something %26amp; you're face to face %26amp; chest to chest works well! It also depends on the partner. Sadly, sometimes you never get there with certain people. You can also use a toy on yourself with your partner there too.I need a girls advice about orgasms!!?
What good can an orgasm bring you? Maybe some women don't get orgasms because they don't want to get them have you thought of that? Sex is only important to worldly people, people who love themselves and people who are into feeling good in their bodies. If you want to be a true Christian then you will not feel guilty if you can't get an orgasm but you'll be glad if you don't have one or if you don't have to have sex. But that is up to you. I'll send you a site where you can study the Bible. Let men have the orgasms since they think it is so important for them to have them. Do you know that sex is only meant to create a child in God's plan? But nowadays people have made sex another sport one has to do to be hip or to fit in. I don't want to fit in and I don't care what they think if I am not like that. Think like that and if you can't then pray to God to be able to think like that.
I started having sex when I was 15 and I didn't ever have an orgasm until I was 18. And when you masturbate you are probably giving yourself a clitoris O which is different then the type of O a girl typically has during sex. Maybe the guy isn't hitting your spot. I don't have an O every time that I have sex. You might want to try a different position. I normally come when I'm on top, and I know doggy style really lets the guy hits a different spot.
When you masturbate you are having direct contact with your clit which is highly sensitive and that is why you have an orgasm. The same when someone performs oral sex on you. It is direct penetration on your clit and this will cause you to have one (if done right!) The times you've had sex your partner did not hit your ';g-spot'; and that is why you didn't have an orgasm. So, it will come with practice, patience %26amp; experience!
It depends on the position also you need to give yourself plenty of time to get worked-up 'horney'.Try getting on top and move up %26amp; down whilst his penis is inside,kind of like grinding,but before that make sure you have had plenty of time for oral %26amp; play,now if my advise has no effect than maybe see a sex therepist,good luck.Tammy
Practice with dry sex. You on top, wearing jeans or another kind of stiff pants, you can. The amount of pressure on your c/lit is crazy and you should come easily. Work from there, trying again without pants, then slowly moving back to intercourse. Show him how to move, how to work both the G spot and the c/lit simultaneously.





Damn girl what is the point of three years of sex and no orgasms.
It's not all that uncommon. A lot of women can get orgasms by masterbating, by getting oral sex from a guy or by a guy usinghis hands. Don't worry about it. Try to guide your boyfriend while having sex. Try different positions that will put more pressure in the place you need itto be.
WELL.... you know your body best and you know what will please you. That's why you orgasm every time you do it yourself. The other person doesn't know as well as you do. The best way to get them to give you one is to ';direct'; them or maybe have them watch you pelase yourself so they get an idea of what areas are ';YOUR'; areas.
Some people have lots of trouble achieving orgasms druing sex. Its nothing wrong with you it just has to do with the phisiology of your body. Changing partners will probably change little. Try stimulating yourself while having sex and see if that helps.
Try using your kegel muscles squeezing and releasing during sex, i find it helps to create that tension. And also try not to expect it, it will happen when you arent focusing on it during sex. Good luck =]
Probably because you have a partner that is either selfish and doesn't get you there first OR you have a bad partner that can't find your O button.Either way...
cuz you can do it better by your self
I don't have orgasms during sex either, only with oral stimulation. Just show him what you like.
choose ';wiser'; partners.
';baby you dont dig you man'; ';baby you dont dig your maaahhhnnn';
Maybe your lover is not working it right. That could be it.
Myabe the gy just isn't doin it for you and you know just what ya like
dont masturbate anymore get use to what you have.
its normale dont worry just help your girlfriend out
mayeb youre not straight
ur not enjoying it
u need to feel more comfortable with ur partners